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Parent Code of Conduct


  • I will encourage climbing the ELM Tree of Mastery with my child (E for Effort, L for Learning, and M for Mistakes are OK). Athletes who are coached toward a mastery approach tend to have reduced anxiety and increased self-confidence, because they focus on things they can control. Being a Mastery Winner is more important and more satisfying than being a Scoreboard winner. 
  • I will use positive encouragement to Fill the Emotional Tanks of my children, their teammates, and coaches regardless of scoreboard results. I understand that, like the gas tank of a car, a full emotional tank can take people most anywhere. The best fuel is an average of 5 specific, truthful praises for each specific, constructive criticism. I will avoid an immediate and critical debrief right after the game.
  • I will be a Second-Goal Parent, focused on the goal of using sports to teach life lessons, while leaving the goal of winning to players and coaches. I will recognize & seize teachable moments to instill these lessons.
  • I will set an example for my child by Honoring the Game, and respecting ROOTS (Rules, Opponents, Officials, Teammates, and Self). If I disagree with an official’s call, I will Honor the Game and be silent. Discussing the call calmly with other parents or coaches can help aid in the soccer learning experience, but must be done in a way that demonstrates respect and good sportsmanship for young players to exemplify. 
  • I will use a Self-Control Routine to avoid losing my composure if I grow frustrated. I will take a deep breath, turn away from the game to refocus, count backwards from 100 or use self-talk (“I need to be a role model for the players as well as the other adults around me. I can rise above this and react in a mature manner”).
  • I will Keep Winning and Losing in Proper Perspective. I understand that success is not directly linked to winning. Setting and achieving team and individual goals aids in true player development.
  • I will Refrain from Negative Comments about my child’s coach or their teammates in my child’s presence so that I do not negatively influence my child’s motivation and overall experience.
  • I will be as Prompt as Possible dropping my child off and picking my child up from practices and games. I will communicate any conflicts with my child’s schedule and practices/games with the coach as early as possible.
  • I will engage in No-Directions Cheering, limiting my comments during the game. I will encourage my child and other players, but will leave the guiding and directing to the coach and the players. I will aid in the athlete- centered learning approach, meaning I will leave the decision making process up to the players as much as possible. I won’t steal their opportunity to learn. The intelligence needs to be on the field, not on the sideline.
  • I understand that my child will be expected to adhere to the Middleton Soccer Club Player Code of Conduct (available on the Club's website here http://middletonsoccer.org).

MSC Parent Tips and Code of Conduct
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Positive Coaching Alliance - Parent Pledge
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Positive Coaching Alliance - Honoring the Game
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